Love Is A Choice!

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Always, love is a choice. You come up against scores of opportunities every day to love or not to love. You encounter hundreds of small chances to please your friends, delight your Lord, and encourage your family. That’s why love and obedience are intimately linked- you can’t have one without the other. ~ Joni Eareckson Tada

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Know that the big works are only completed by a busy man

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Man has enough time to complete all required activities all what is needed is to organize his available time. If his time is not organized then man (but not time) shall be responsible for the non completion of his work the nearest of all evil is idleness. A civilized man who appreciates the time value can easily head forth into the future and achieve miracles. Time is more important than money and should be organized with utmost care. Time passes and waits not for anybody. Low and high tides wait no one. If time is not invested in a well defined realistic plan. It will escape and never come back. Time was made like an arrow when shot, it will not turn back to its bow. Money can be lost but also compensated often sometime. Goods are also perishable but also reproduce able.only time passes away but never waits any return back.
Time management
How can we manage our time?
Time value
Time budgeting
The value of time /life
Man’s life on earth is simply his living time from birth to death. Thus your life would be the result of days accommodated whenever a day passes some part of passes some part of your life goes along with it.
Time is like sword; unless you cut best utilized it then it will chop you off. One whose day is like yesterday is an awkward and one whose day is worse than his yesterday is dammed
I am not regretful for anything than a day which when its sun sets reduces my life time but adds nothing to my good deeds.
Time budgeting following the evaluation of our time we need to work out plan for it exactly as any organization lays down its budget at the beginning of each year to prepare an integrated overview of its output quality, quantity and consequently profit and loss balance.
Concentration-the total devotion to work in order to achieve the higher perfection and quality. There is no illness in life that can’t be cured by hard working and deep concentration. GOD change not what is in nation until they change what is in themselves.
Managing your sleeping time
After a long day of hard work and constant preoccupation mans mental condition will be at its lowest serenity. a better approach is to go to sleep early and consequently you will wake up early to new day enjoy the spiritual and psychological lucidity at its highest level.
Manage your time-eating
Available time must be fairly divided between requirements of other activities.
Rest time
Recreation and physical exercise are almost ignored or neglected .get relaxed and give your hearts need recreation from an hour to another because heart becomes blind if under constant compulsion. Harmonies life is thereby continuously kept in lively spiritual, mental and physical immovability.
A sincere heart-to heart dialogue can effectively dissolve any residual controversy so that love and brotherhood have last thing in our daily relationships. Love would replace stream orders. You like them to fulfill their duties also you must like them to get their rights.
Working time
Be disciplined organized your duties and manage your time. Go to work when you feel fit. Take out specific activities and complete them one by one. Jumping from one incomplete job to another incomplete means a loss of time. All work eventually tries out the mind until you reach a state of mental fatigue; change over from one type of work to another.
Crisis management-is part of managing your time efficiently always be prepared to face problems and crises in course of time you will develop a positive attitude with which you solve promptly all problems
Learn the value of your time
Put the right person at the right place. Make best use of your time by training your assistance so that they could shoulder responsibility as a team.
Everything in its place, a place for everything. Life is the sum of all friends with whom you are closely and constantly related

The Afocha-daily life of Harar

The Afocha
The traditional associations called afocha are neighborhood communities that run the
daily life of Harar citizens, particularly in regard to the rites of
passage such as weddings and funerals. Each married adult is expected to belong to an afocha, that he joins because of physical proximity and that he adopts through a hereditary transmission process. In this way
certain individuals represent their families for more than six generations in the same afocha,
which goes to explain today how one might live in a neighborhood other than that where the
association is to be found. The association can include up to a hundred members of the same
sex—as there are afochas for men and afochas for women.
An afocha is made up of nine officials—a president, a treasurer, a secretary, a
coordinator responsible for funereal ceremonies, someone responsible for noting those late
and those absent, another in charge of telephoning members of the group to inform them of a
death, a vice president, a vice treasurer, a vice secretary. Each member is required to pay a
contribution to the association and, when he is absent or late in attending a reunion, he can be
asked to pay a fine.
When there is a wedding or funeral, each member participates in the ceremony in one
way or another—one is responsible for digging the grave, another to carry the dead, etc.
When there’s a death, the afocha attributes a sum of money to the family of the deceased, a
sum that can vary according to the association in question. The afocha thus is a traditional
system that maintains social cohesion among Harari citizens through solidarity and respect for
the rules of life in society and within the religion.


Taxicabs of New York City

Taxicabs of New York City (Photo credit: marcoderksen)

If a cab is your transportation of choice, be sure to follow these safety tips when travelling here or abroad;

1. Always use an established taxicab company
2. Ask what the rate is before you get into the cab.
3. Do not share a cab with someone you do not know.
4. Do not share personal information with cap driver. Keep the topic conversation on the whether or local place of interest. use your intuition. If you are uncomfortable, or if something isn’t right with the driver, get out of the cab.
5. Make sure that the meter reads zero when you start your trip. If not politely ask your driver to reset the meter.
6. Tell the driver you would like him to take the most direct route ideally you should plot your path on the city map ahead of time so you know where the driver should be taking you..!


When you meet someone in the public setting-a coffee shop health club, for example-have you ever thought, this person is a little strange-and not just because he is wearing a polyester leisure suit that is your inner voice saying steer clear. woman have been conditioned to be polite to everyone, including some obnoxious men who wont take no for an answer. don’t worry about being abused or insult don’t worry about being rude or hurting someone feelings. many women wish that  they had not been so nice to the strangers!!! the eyes have it, there are many ways to sense if someone is a possible danger to you. a good indication is by looking into there eyes. you know the sayings; the eyes are the window to the soul. well, if a persons eyes appear glassy or glazed over, chances are this is not someone you want around. another signal is if the stranger stares at you inappropriately. There is an acceptable amount of time that a stranger look at you. You decide that amount of time!!


Begin to tap into your intuition

You hear it time and time again;listen to your gut instinct, or intution  fact is it works. If you just take  time to get in tune with your surroundings, nine times out of ten you will be able to avoid a negative situation before it happens. If only we had done that with many of our ex we are all going a hundred miles an hour from sun up to sun down. We barely take  time to eat lunch, let alone get in touch with our inner selves. This is a big mistake. To live safe and smart,you must use your intution. It is like that little dress-without it,your wardrobe is not complete. You cannot even begin to tap into your intution, however, If you are preoccupied taking  time to be aware of your surroundings can save your life. Intution just means acknowledging what you already know inside. Recognizing that butterfly feeling in your stomach or the prickly sensational down the back of your neck means that you are inner self is trying to tell you something. It could be something that’s not right or learning to sense your body intuitive signals is the first step to personal safety. Without intuition, all the safety tips in the world wont help you. One of the most compelling books about the value of intuition is the gift of fear.

Written by gavin de becker think about it apply to your daily life.get in tune with your intuition. Who knows it might even improve your love life!!